Achieving a blissful balance in marriage is mostly about sharing responsibilities and tackling problems before they turn into disasters. With women sharing equal workplace responsibilities these days, most of the modern families function with full-time working couples. When both the partners are engrossed in their work, their family and personal lives often take a quite back seat. But, it is not difficult to quench your thirst for success, and maintain a solid foundation of love and care in your family simultaneously. With a few tips, you and your partner can balance your work and family life effectively. Take a look:
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Well-oiled daily schedule
It is like re-visiting the basics: the efficient management of time. This is not just a business mantra, but also a step towards successful marriage. You need to sort out your day and make some smart re-arrangements and filter your priorities. Instead of spending time with friends after work, a working couple should get home to spend time with each other. If you are a parent, then make time for your kids as well. Working couple should always make it an aim to have their breakfast and dinner together.
Keep work away from home
Making prior arrangements, thinking ahead of time and completion of daily duties is very important. Do not conduct business during family time. Never bring your work on the dinner table. Avoid business phone calls in front of your family. It is best that both partners (or parents) should leave their work stress in office. A family person should always keep their schedule flexible. Pay attention to your family members and try to be jolly around them.
Fun quality time with family
These are actually the memories most precious to us and we cherish them forever. No matter how busy you are, always plan some fun family time together. Talk to your partner, kids, and other family members and plan a weekend that you all can spend together. Maybe plan a vacation, an outing, a road trip, or a visit to your relatives outside the city. You can also plan a simple picnic in the park, or a trip to the zoo or just a fancy dinner. If you are too tired or busy, plan something indoors, but it must be fun and a total stress-buster.
This one is not just for those working couples who have to travel or are settled in different cities, but also for those who rarely make their presence felt even while residing under the same roof. Speak out your feelings, take interest in your family activities, and discuss family matters with every one. For those partners residing in different cities, with improvement of technology and mobile phones staying connected is not really a problem. Maintain a good communication channel with your family at all times. (Also read on How to Make Long-distance Marriage a Success)
Support each other
Always remember that you and your partner share equal responsibilities. Your partner is equal to you in all dimensions. So, to work as a family, you should be ready to swap positions and cover for each other at home. Give each other full support and motivate each other. Never disparage your partner’s responsibilities. And, always make sure that even you both should take out some time for each other, away from your work and family.
So, with these tips get ready to strike a better balance between your work and family life!