5 Steps to Planning Your Best Friend's Baby Shower


A baby shower is the celebration of the arrival of a new member into the family. It is also about giving respect and an amazing time to the expecting mother with her near and dear ones. Organising a women’s baby shower is usually the job of her best friends. When you are planning such a party for your best friend you want to make sure that she remembers it forever as one of the most memorable moments of her life. For this you need to engage her family members or other friends for help. Here are the essentials you need to know for planning the baby shower.

Selecting the location, date and time

You need to be sure of the total number of people who will be attending the shower before selecting the location. It would be a good option to host it at your own house as it would become a little more personal & comfortable. For the date, plan the baby shower at least a month before the due date. Keeping the party on a weekend will enable outstation guests and relatives to attend too. Also, choose a time which is convenient for everyone. An afternoon brunch party would ideally be perfect.

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Select the theme

Being the host, it is your responsibility to choose the perfect theme for the shower. Also being her best friend, you are well aware of her likes and dislikes. So try to select a theme that she would love at once.

Inviting the guests

Planning the invitation list is only one aspect while the main task remains to send out the invitations. An invitation card for a baby shower needs to have the following points-

  • The location
  • Date and Time
  • The dress Code (if any)
  • The contact number of the host
  • An itinerary to the entire event

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Planning the fun activities

For the success of any baby shower you need to plan a number of fun activities such as games, karaoke etc. Plan such games that are related to the baby. For example, you could play a game of scrabble only with baby names. Games and other such activities keep all the guest busy and entertained. Even the mother-to-be enjoys herself playing these baby related games. You can take inspiration from films such as Hum Aapke Hain Kaun.

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Planning the menu

The menu of the baby shower depends on what time of the day it is being held. If it is a breakfast party, you can have fresh breads with sausages, differently done eggs, baked beans etc with fresh juice and coffee. If it’s a brunch, try to keep more of appetizers and snacks. Also don’t forget to order a cake for the expecting mom. For making it all the more special, you could bake one for her yourself.
So follow all these tips and give your best friend the best baby shower ever! 

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